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The Bereavement Doula.

Bearing witness to love and loss intertwined.

The textbook and workbook for the 16-CEU bereavement doula specialty course offered through Mary’s Hands Network. The most comprehensive bereavement doula training resource available.

The Bereavement Doula textbook cover

Sold as a bundle with the Companion Workbook. Both books are required for the Mary’s Hands Network certification. The textbook is $24.99 and the companion workbook $19.99, both on books.by. See the workbook →

When a family loses a baby, the clinical team knows how to manage the medical crisis. Almost no one knows how to manage what comes after.

This book fills that gap. Every framework, protocol, and clinical communication approach was developed in collaboration with morticians, obstetricians, social workers, and labor and delivery and NICU nurses. The result reflects the full reality of pregnancy and infant loss across every setting where it occurs.

This is not a book about what to say. It’s a book about becoming trained well enough that the right response becomes instinct.

For doulas, labor and delivery and NICU nurses, social workers, and anyone called to show up with skill, not just sympathy.

The textbook — $24.99

Course materials are required for the certification. Add the live course to earn the 16 CEUs and the specialty designation.

Textbook ISBN: 979-89-03103-82-9 · Workbook ISBN: 979-89-03103-91-1

Important: books ≠ certification

These books are the course materials. To earn the 16 ICEA CEUs and the bereavement doula specialty designation, you must also complete the live course, which is offered and enrolled through Mary’s Hands Network, not here. Buying the books alone does not equal certification.

What’s inside the textbook

Every kind of loss, every kind of room.

Grief frameworks applied at the bedside. Clinical communication scripts for the worst moments. Bereavement protocols across hospital, birth center, and home. The emotional sustainability work for the people who do this work for years.

What’s inside the Companion Workbook

Where the textbook ends, the workbook begins.

The active-practice partner. Designed to be worked through chapter by chapter alongside the main text. Built for cohort training and self-paced study alike.

01

Reflection prompts

Open-ended questions with full writing space. The kind of prompts that surface the assumptions, fears, and lived experiences students bring with them into a bereavement room.

02

Self-assessment

Honest checks on what students know, what they don’t, and where their competence still has to grow. Built to be repeated — once at the start of the course, once at the end.

03

Case studies

Scenarios drawn from the kinds of losses bereavement doulas hold — stillbirth, NICU loss, termination for medical reasons, infant death — with structured space to work through what care looks like in each.

How it was written

Built with the people who do this work.

Every framework, protocol, and clinical communication approach in this book was developed in collaboration with the people who hold these families: morticians who handle remains, obstetricians who deliver in silence, social workers who walk the families to the door, labor and delivery nurses who count fingers and toes, NICU nurses who watch monitors fade.

The book reflects what they all know to be true and what they all wish someone had taught them. It is the only bereavement doula training resource of its kind because it was the only way to write one honestly.

“You don’t need to be wise. You need to be trained. Wisdom is what training looks like once it has become instinct.”

How the certification works

Two required pieces. One specialty.

To earn the bereavement doula specialty designation and the 16 ICEA CEUs, you must complete both of the following. Neither is optional.

Required, $44.98

1. Get the textbook and workbook

The Bereavement Doula textbook and its Companion Workbook, $24.99 and $19.99 on books.by. Grief frameworks, clinical protocols, bedside communication, plus reflection prompts, self-assessment, and case studies.

The textbook — $24.99

Required, enrolled separately

2. Take the live course

The 16-CEU live specialty course, ICEA-approved, with 6 months of online access. Required to earn the CEUs and the specialty designation. Madeline is the lead instructor, but enrollment and pricing are handled by Mary’s Hands Network, not through this site.

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After you complete both steps

Submit your continuing education credits directly through ICEA at icea.org to log your 16 CEUs toward your certification renewal.

Get the books

Skill, not just sympathy.

The course materials. The live 16-CEU course itself is enrolled through Mary’s Hands Network.

The textbook — $24.99

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